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Set your life on fire, seek those who fan your flames.

Find the women who bring out your fire and see your soul, the ones who fight with you, for you, the ones you can call at 3 am and say “I need you” and it will be enough. The ones who build you up, who are always honest with you especially when they disagree. They might not like your decision or choices, but they will support you regardless because they believe in you. When you fall they are first to extend a hand, to stand guard against the world. These women who love you for who you are, they are your tribe and you are theirs

These women, a few you know and others you haven’t met, so keep your eyes and mind open, each one of them will bring something significant to your journey. You will know them by what they offer; what they extend to you sets them apart from the rest, hold onto those few who do not detract from your inner peace. Your circle is sacred and not everyone should be allowed in. Be wary of the soul suckers and emotional vampires,  stand your ground and set boundaries, it's ok to say "Hell no, I don't want that crap in my space". 

I am encircled by women who I feel as if I stumbled upon in some blind accident of fate in one way or another; I was trudging along and there they were, each different in just the right way. I have know some of them since childhood others for a few moments in time and I love them each the same for the individual joy they have imparted.

They make me laugh, push me to dig deeper, surround me with warmth and support when I need it most. They are my friends, my sisters, my captains in adventure and my travel partners on this journey that is wild and crazy. They are my tribe, my funny, inspiring, independent, kind and sarcastic, witty, brilliant, edgy, fierce and incredible tribe. 


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